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Day 28: Joining sentences

-고 · -아/어서 vs -(으)니까 · -지만 · ★ -는데 · fillers and reactions · 30 min

Your grammar is finished. What separates you from a Korean speaker now is length — you speak in short correct sentences, and Koreans speak in long ones.

밥 먹었어요. 그리고 영화 봤어요.밥 먹고 영화 봤어요.

Five connectors today. ★ The last one, -는데, is the single most-used ending in spoken Korean, and almost no course teaches it early enough.

1. -고 — "and"

### stem + 고 — lists actions or facts in order
밥 먹고 영화 봤어요.I ate and watched a film
저는 학생이고, 친구는 회사원이에요.I'm a student and my friend works
싸고 맛있어요.It's cheap and tasty

-고 does not change for tense. The last verb carries it: 밥 먹고 영화 봤어요 — 먹 stays plain, and 봤어요 makes the whole thing past.

2. ★★ -아/어서 vs -(으)니까 — two "because"s

Both mean because / so. The difference decides which one you can use.

FormUse
-아/어서해요 form − 요 + 서★ cause and effect, stating something
-(으)니까vowel → -니까, batchim → -으니까★ giving a reason for a request or suggestion
배고파서 밥 먹었어요.I was hungry, so I ate
비가 와서 못 갔어요.It rained, so I couldn't go
바쁘니까 나중에 전화할게요.I'm busy, so I'll call later
추우니까 문 닫으세요.It's cold, so close the door

⚠️ The rule that actually matters

### -아/어서 CANNOT be followed by a command, a request or a suggestion.
추워서 문 닫으세요추우니까 문 닫으세요
바빠서 나중에 갈까요?바쁘니까 나중에 갈까요?

If the second half is 세요, 주세요, -ㄹ까요 or -ㄹ게요 — you must use 니까. Otherwise 서 is the more common and neutral choice.

⚠️ And -아/어서 never carries tense either배고팠어서 is wrong. 배고파서, with the past only on the final verb. (니까 can take it: 배고팠으니까.)

Two you already know: 그래서 (so, therefore) and 그러니까 (so, in that case) are these same endings turned into sentence openers.

3. -지만 — "but"

### stem + 지만
어렵지만 재미있어요.It's hard but fun
비싸지만 맛있어요.It's expensive but tasty
가고 싶지만 시간이 없어요.I want to go but I have no time

-지만 takes tense freely — 갔지만, 좋았지만. Unlike 서, it has no restrictions. Sentence-opener version: 하지만 / 그렇지만.

4. ★★ -는데 — the one Koreans actually use

-는데 is the most frequent connector in spoken Korean, and it does not translate cleanly. It means roughly "and… / but… / so here's the situation…" — it sets up background for what comes next.

### Action verbs → -는데 · Descriptive verbs → -(으)ㄴ데 · Past → -았/었는데
한국어 공부하는데 어려워요.I'm studying Korean and it's hard
비싼데 살까요?It's expensive — shall we buy it anyway?
어제 갔는데 문 닫았어요.I went yesterday but it was closed
친구를 만났는데 정말 반가웠어요.I met a friend and it was so nice

Four jobs, one ending:

JobExample
contrast (but)좋은데 비싸요
background (and so)시간 없는데 다음에 봐요
softening a request저기, 부탁이 있는데요…
trailing off politely— 어디 가요? — 친구 만나는데요…

⚠️ ★ -는데요 on its own, trailing off, is extremely common and very polite. It leaves the sentence open for the listener to respond, and it is how Koreans soften almost everything. 저 지금 좀 바쁜데요… says "I'm a bit busy right now" far more gently than 바빠요.

If you learn one thing from today, make it this: end a hesitant sentence with -는데요 instead of stopping flat. It changes how you come across more than any vocabulary will.

5. -(으)면 and -(으)ㄹ 때 — if and when

-(으)면if, when시간 있으면 전화하세요. — Call if you have time
-(으)ㄹ 때when, while밥 먹을 때 물 마셔요. — I drink water when I eat

(You met -(으)면 inside -(으)면 안 돼요 on Day 20.)

한국에 가면 연락할게요. — I'll get in touch when I go to Korea.어릴 때 캐나다에 살았어요. — I lived in Canada when I was young.

6. Sentence openers, and reactions

Openers

그리고and
그래서so, therefore
그런데 / 근데★ but, by the way — 근데 is what people say
하지만however
그러니까so, in other words
그럼then, in that case

★ Reactions — say something back

아, 네.ah, right
그래요?really?
진짜요? / 정말요?seriously?
맞아요.that's right
그렇구나. / 그렇군요.★ ah, I see
그러네요.you're right, actually
좋겠다!★ lucky you!
아이고…oh dear
어떡해요!oh no, what will you do!

Korean conversation expects constant noise back네, 네, 아 그래요?, 맞아요 — and silence reads as incomprehension or disagreement (Day 3 §5). 그렇구나 and 좋겠다 are the two to add today.

Buying time

음… · 글쎄요… (hmm, not sure) · 뭐지… (what's it called) · 잠깐만요 (hang on) · 어떻게 말하지… (how do I say this)

7. Dialogue — the same content, twice

A — correct, and nothing like real speech

민수: 주말에 뭐 했어요?Alex: 부산에 갔어요. 좋았어요. 비쌌어요.민수: 그래요.

B — the same facts, with today's endings

민수: 주말에 뭐 했어요?Alex: 아, 부산에 갔는데요, 진짜 좋았어요.민수: 오, 좋겠다! 어떻게 갔어요?Alex: KTX 타고 갔어요. 빠른데 좀 비쌌어요.민수: 그렇구나. 뭐 했어요?Alex: 바다 보고 회 먹었어요. 처음 먹어 봤는데 괜찮았어요.민수: 진짜요? 저는 회 못 먹는데…Alex: 아, 그래요? 저도 무서웠는데 맛있었어요.민수: 그럼 다음에 같이 가요. 시간 있으면요.Alex: 좋아요! 근데 좀 머니까 아침 일찍 가야 돼요.민수: 그러네요. 그럼 토요일 어때요?
Version B has no grammar you did not have on Day 27. Every difference is a connector or a reaction — -는데, -고, -니까, -면, 그렇구나, 좋겠다, 진짜요.That is the entire gap between correct Korean and real Korean, and you just closed it.

8. Exercises

A. Join with -고.

  1. 밥 먹었어요. 영화 봤어요.
  2. 싸요. 맛있어요.

B. ⚠️★ -아/어서 or -(으)니까?

  1. 배고___ 밥 먹었어요.
  2. 추우___ 문 닫으세요.
  3. 비가 와___ 못 갔어요.
  4. 바쁘___ 나중에 전화할게요.

C. Join with -지만.

  1. 어려워요. 재미있어요.
  2. 비싸요. 맛있어요.

D. ★ -는데 / -(으)ㄴ데 / -았는데.

  1. 공부하다 (present, action) 2. 비싸다 (descriptive) 3. 가다 (past) 4. 시간 없다

E. -(으)면 or -(으)ㄹ 때?

  1. Call if you have time.
  2. I drink water when I eat.
  3. I lived in Canada when I was young.

F. React.

  1. Your friend went to Busan. 2. You've just understood something.
  2. You're not sure. 4. Something bad happened to them.

G. ⚠️ Fix the mistake.

  1. 추워서 문 닫으세요.
  2. 배고팠어서 밥 먹었어요.
  3. 비싼는데 살까요?
  4. (hesitating) 저 지금 바빠요.
Answers

A. 1. 밥 먹고 영화 봤어요. 2. 싸고 맛있어요. B. 1. 배고파서 2. 추우니까 (command follows) 3. 비가 와 4. 바쁘니까 (-ㄹ게요 follows) C. 1. 어렵지만 재미있어요. 2. 비싸지만 맛있어요. D. 1. 공부하는데 2. 비싼데 3. 갔는데 4. 시간 없는데 (있다/없다 → 는데) E. 1. 시간 있으 전화하세요. 2. 밥 먹을 물 마셔요. 3. 어릴 캐나다에 살았어요. F. 1. 좋겠다! 2. 그렇구나. 3. 글쎄요… 4. 어떡해요! / 아이고… G. 1. 추우니까 — a command follows 2. 배고파서 — 서 takes no tense 3. 비싼데 4. 좀 바쁜데요… — far gentler

9. Today's 10 sentences (flashcards)

  1. 밥 먹고 영화 봤어요. — I ate and watched a film
  2. 배고파서 밥 먹었어요. — I was hungry so I ate
  3. 바쁘니까 나중에 전화할게요. — I'm busy so I'll call later
  4. 어렵지만 재미있어요. — It's hard but fun
  5. 어제 갔는데 문 닫았어요. — I went yesterday but it was closed
  6. 저 지금 좀 바쁜데요… — I'm a bit busy right now…
  7. 시간 있으면 전화하세요. — Call if you have time
  8. 그렇구나. — Ah, I see
  9. 좋겠다! — Lucky you!
  10. 글쎄요… — Hmm, I'm not sure

10. 📲 Upload to LangNote

Upload both versions of the dialogue (section 7) and section 9 → study language Korean.

MissionWhat to do with it today
🎧 PodcastToday's key mission. Play A and B back to back — hearing the gap is the lesson
✍️ Dictation-는데 is unstressed and fast; you will miss it entirely at first
🗣 ShadowingVersion B, both roles, matching the melody
🎭 Role-playTalk for five turns using -는데, -니까 and 그렇구나 at least once each
📖 Vocab-아/어서 / -(으)니까 as one card with the rule, so they never separate
Tomorrow is conversation day — no new material, thirty minutes of talking.Day 30 re-records your Day 1 sentences. Find that recording tonight.

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